tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post2988769536516700599..comments2024-01-22T07:52:20.050-05:00Comments on Soulfari: 10 Ways to be a Faithful HusbandAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07866639097998917122noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-38067791993898131432020-10-21T13:21:54.753-04:002020-10-21T13:21:54.753-04:00I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never ...I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. i was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, i saw a recommendation about a PI/Hacker and decided to contact him. I explained the situation about my wife to him and he said he was going to help me.I gave him all the informations he required and afterwards i received all my wife’s phones Text messages and calls, I was hurt when i saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but i am glad Mr james was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him through Gmail : Worldcyberhackers or WhatsApp: +1 (267) 877‑3020, infidelity hurts..Pedro Santa Cruzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15487668869214045405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-18546163816375450122012-09-24T16:51:48.532-04:002012-09-24T16:51:48.532-04:00I think that i am a helpmeet to my husband. My hus...I think that i am a helpmeet to my husband. My husband do not know how to love because the things he have said to me that is hurtful about me to others. I have forgive him so many times. I believe in marriage and what God word says how the husband suppose love the wife and care for her. I like your list. All i want is love from my husband and he be there for me. I want to respect.him . Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-35436269425683645542012-02-25T14:36:42.968-05:002012-02-25T14:36:42.968-05:00Absolutely...we all need to speak compliments to o...Absolutely...we all need to speak compliments to our wives...reminding them how wonderful they are!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-998492938989586482012-02-25T14:23:57.125-05:002012-02-25T14:23:57.125-05:00Hey Jay,
I think this is great, but please dont f...Hey Jay,<br /><br />I think this is great, but please dont forget the lovely compliments I really need to here that every once in a week (lol) especially when I'm trying so hard to do so.<br /><br />Betsy Betsynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-37315248364106525782011-10-27T20:19:32.356-04:002011-10-27T20:19:32.356-04:00Good questions...unfortunately, there are no easy ...Good questions...unfortunately, there are no easy answers. As for more articles about being a good wife...I'll leave that for the ladies who read my blog...I'm pretty sure that I'm not qualified to do that! <br /><br />I'm not sure if you are a follower of Christ but I am and the Biblical basis for my marriage is found in Ephesians 5:25-27.<br /><br />"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless."<br /><br />I don't think there much wiggle room for not taking the lead in demonstrating love in a marriage covenant. It doesn't matter what my wife's response is to my love...I'm still suppose to love her. Now, I do believe that it takes two to "keep things together" because that is the way God designed it to work. But my love is NOT dependent on my wife's behavior...it's me being obedient to what God has asked of me.<br /><br />Again, it's hard to convey everything I feel about this in a few paragraphs and I'm not trying to downplay your struggle. I take marriage very seriously and believe it one of the best ways to discover more about ourselves...and I believe God wants it to bless both husband and wife. I will pray for you and please keep the conversation going if you choose...I don't have all the answers but I know Father God does.Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-58095261657330528662011-10-27T20:04:26.379-04:002011-10-27T20:04:26.379-04:00What do you do when your wife drives you away due ...What do you do when your wife drives you away due to her lack of respect for you? If she lies to your face and denies it blatantly and only responds in (an awkward) apology after arguing with her about the fact that she is lying and then turns the blame onto you to get herself out of the limelight? It seems like she needs a fool of a man who will follow her regardless of his needs. Perhaps there should be more articles about how to be a good wife? It seems like a constant struggle and there are times when I feel like just running away from her clutches. Should it all be about the husband being the one to keep things together? In this day and age where female rights are getting out of hand (swinging in the direction of man's power being taken away), how can there be symmetry when the wife has no respect for her husband? Thanks for your response by the way. I am just curious about your point of view on this matter :)Dfjnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-21179350684268835442011-10-26T07:29:39.473-04:002011-10-26T07:29:39.473-04:00Didn't mean to make it sound simple because lo...Didn't mean to make it sound simple because loving our wives in the manner they deserve isn't easy...not because of them but because we want our own way...or at least I know I do. The list is just a reminder of some of the things we need to do be the husbands our wives need. Thanks for the comment!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-55038020651454585342011-10-26T01:42:38.650-04:002011-10-26T01:42:38.650-04:00You make it sound so easy and simple. It's muc...You make it sound so easy and simple. It's much harder that you make outDfjnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-61826189334034901302011-01-08T18:52:48.349-05:002011-01-08T18:52:48.349-05:00Joey, thanks for commenting! Marriage will change ...Joey, thanks for commenting! Marriage will change you bro...only for the better! Enjoy every bit of the adventure!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-12960159269499847562011-01-08T16:56:41.897-05:002011-01-08T16:56:41.897-05:00Simple but very helpful. My wife Carmin and I are ...Simple but very helpful. My wife Carmin and I are newly married (8 Months) and I needed to be introduced to this list :) I love all of the list. I will be typing the list out and printing it so I can frame it and place it where I can read it daily so this list can sink in and that I can apply it. Awesome!Joey Bastahttp://twitter.com/JoeyBastanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-10741734161890417012011-01-06T22:30:40.040-05:002011-01-06T22:30:40.040-05:00That's another good one...will you watch my ki...That's another good one...will you watch my kids? ;-0 Thanks Kevin!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-18042925840269643522011-01-06T22:00:30.172-05:002011-01-06T22:00:30.172-05:00Great list Jay!
The only thing I would add is get...Great list Jay!<br /><br />The only thing I would add is getting away without the kids at least once a year. :)Kevin M.http://kevinmartineau.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-64756626566161382782011-01-06T20:27:21.247-05:002011-01-06T20:27:21.247-05:00Thanks for the high five sista! Appreciate the inp...Thanks for the high five sista! Appreciate the input...bless ya!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-22563198442240432752011-01-06T17:43:54.770-05:002011-01-06T17:43:54.770-05:00How 'bout a little sista input ;)
This is aw...How 'bout a little sista input ;)<br /><br />This is awesome "Guard your marriage (emotionally and physically) "<br /><br />that word "guard" just brings about an immence feeling of protection, honor and comfort.....all wrapped up in one.<br /><br />*high five**~Michelle~*http://www.pridelandsmommy.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-750393730619093782011-01-06T15:55:40.073-05:002011-01-06T15:55:40.073-05:00You're probably right dude...I was just playin...You're probably right dude...I was just playing with Michael...Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-27426043148161514252011-01-06T15:55:39.107-05:002011-01-06T15:55:39.107-05:00Thanks Bro'...marriage is a great adventure......Thanks Bro'...marriage is a great adventure...my personal list is actually much longer!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-32567617287370512522011-01-06T15:32:44.861-05:002011-01-06T15:32:44.861-05:00That's a great one Dusty...might have to steal...That's a great one Dusty...might have to steal it for the book...;-0Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-64879334941992662682011-01-06T15:25:44.099-05:002011-01-06T15:25:44.099-05:00You are such an encouragement Jay. I'll keep t...You are such an encouragement Jay. I'll keep these points ready for when my time comes! :)Tony Aliceahttp://www.tonyjalicea.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-61552408175906362072011-01-06T15:25:23.314-05:002011-01-06T15:25:23.314-05:00I think he means defend her, make her feel safe at...I think he means defend her, make her feel safe at all times.Tony Aliceahttp://www.tonyjalicea.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-9831246404566303652011-01-06T09:37:01.591-05:002011-01-06T09:37:01.591-05:00Surprise her with extraordinary effort on the &quo...Surprise her with extraordinary effort on the "unspecial" days.Dusty Rayburnhttp://rlcblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-60659343986919352892011-01-06T08:38:47.920-05:002011-01-06T08:38:47.920-05:00Michael...take up the: laundry? Not sure what you ...Michael...take up the: laundry? Not sure what you meant there but serving our wives is always a great way to go.Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-25950490037400491392011-01-06T07:45:04.089-05:002011-01-06T07:45:04.089-05:00Take up for her is the one I would add.Take up for her is the one I would add.MichaelDPerkinshttp://theperkinsblog.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-78153590226900002332011-01-06T07:33:30.226-05:002011-01-06T07:33:30.226-05:00I would agree Bill...that would be protecting her ...I would agree Bill...that would be protecting her in a special way. Thanks for the input!Jay Cookinghamhttp://soulfari.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208483639990881800.post-74124089361834338542011-01-06T06:59:47.713-05:002011-01-06T06:59:47.713-05:00I would say that about covers it all. I might add...I would say that about covers it all. I might add one but not sure if it fits. Tell her it is okay to leave work and not feel guilty if she doesn't feel well (emotionally) to be there.bill (cycleguy)noreply@blogger.com