10 Ways to be a Faithful Husband
“Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” Ephesians 5:33
I absolutely love being married, of course having the perfect wife helps but I am so thankful that Christine decided to accept my proposal 28 years ago. This awesome adventure we share is a constant reminder that God is good and that marriage is good for me.
For sure there are more than ten ways to be a faithful husband but this is a small list included in my book (Retooled). Ponder over them and see if they speak to you…many are not radical or new…but I believe they are huge in importance. I also believe that I need to review this list constantly and make sure that it’s more than a list.
10 Ways to be a faithful husband
- Love your wife
- Guard your marriage (emotionally and physically)
- Pray for your marriage
- Remember the special days (anniversaries,birthdays)
- Be the spiritual leader of the home
- Avoid criticism (in fact…don’t!)
- Have regular date times
- Speak well of your marriage (in public as well as private)
- Encourage your wife (in public as well as private)
- Show and tell (how grateful you are you married her)
So my brothers…what do you think of my list? Want to add anything?
Comments
This is awesome "Guard your marriage (emotionally and physically) "
that word "guard" just brings about an immence feeling of protection, honor and comfort.....all wrapped up in one.
*high five*
The only thing I would add is getting away without the kids at least once a year. :)
I'm not sure if you are a follower of Christ but I am and the Biblical basis for my marriage is found in Ephesians 5:25-27.
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless."
I don't think there much wiggle room for not taking the lead in demonstrating love in a marriage covenant. It doesn't matter what my wife's response is to my love...I'm still suppose to love her. Now, I do believe that it takes two to "keep things together" because that is the way God designed it to work. But my love is NOT dependent on my wife's behavior...it's me being obedient to what God has asked of me.
Again, it's hard to convey everything I feel about this in a few paragraphs and I'm not trying to downplay your struggle. I take marriage very seriously and believe it one of the best ways to discover more about ourselves...and I believe God wants it to bless both husband and wife. I will pray for you and please keep the conversation going if you choose...I don't have all the answers but I know Father God does.
I think this is great, but please dont forget the lovely compliments I really need to here that every once in a week (lol) especially when I'm trying so hard to do so.
Betsy